Resilience and strength of families and children
At the Mazar-i-Sharif Regional Hospital in the Balkh Province in northern Afghanistan, I have witnessed the incredible strength and resilience of the families and children who come through our doors. One inspiring story is that of 22-year-old *Shekiba and her daughter, *Atoosa.
Shekiba, a proud mother from Chimtal District – situated about an hour's drive from Mazar-i-Sharif – who embarked on a challenging journey when she gave birth to her precious daughter, Atoosa, prematurely at just 28 weeks at Mazar-i-Sharif Hospital’s maternity ward, run by the Ministry of Public Health. Atoosa's arrival at a mere 1.2 kilograms marked the beginning of a long and arduous battle for survival. Due to her very low birth weight and physical condition, she was referred for admission at the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU), which MSF supports at the hospital.
Premature newborns must undergo long periods of hospitalisation that can be extremely disruptive for their families. In Mazar-i-Sharif, being a regional hospital, we receive premature and sick newborns from various districts and towns across northern Afghanistan. Many mothers remain alone with their baby in hospital for long weeks, far from their families and homes. At the Mazar-i-Sharif Hospital, we admit newborns delivered inside the maternity ward of the facility as well as those referred from other health facilities in the northern provinces of Afghanistan.
What drew me to Shekiba was that she was among the first whose babies we admitted to the NICU, yet they spent a long time at the hospital, giving us a lot of time to build a bond. For two months, she spent every waking moment looking at her baby, sometimes finding it hard to sleep. The agony of seeing your baby on life support and not knowing whether they would pull through can really weigh someone down, and Shekiba would sometimes feel dejected, breaking down into tears. But in those moments of despair, fellow mothers, the nurses and doctors gave her emotional support.